Invinceable

[mishka422]

Also, you can get an order sending his tax refund to you each year to help make up the money he is behind. You should definitely do that!

OH MY GOSH! I had no idea I could do that. The filing fee is $80 but I can't do all the paperwork myself. It totally confuses me. I'd need legal help. For civil action they will not provide assistance and the state agency is no help at all. They throw the papers at you and tell you to get it to them when you figure it out. I'm too stupid to figure it out. All that legal-ease makes my head spin.

Kalni - Don't get me started on Obama and his idiot 'programs'. The whole idea of change is a nice pipedream, but it's not reality. I won't get into a political discussion about it but suffice it to say that he's not my president.

Lola - Sounds like TX is just like GA. There are plenty of assistance programs but you have to be the right 'type' of person to get them. This is the south so change cholitas to something else and you have the same idea. I could spell out some ideas I've had about how to get help but it would sound really awful. It's sad, but true.

Michelle - If I count my mom's income with mine and have a household of 3 it's still too much (by about $100). Again, they don't consider that she has EXTREME medical expenses that take her entire social security income every month (a little over $1300). I make less now than I did 10 years ago. Sucks! I thought you were supposed to gradually get ahead, not further and further behind and paid less and less while the cost of living skyrockets. GAG!

I was talking to my C today about Gabe's non-payment and how I am resigned to him never being a father to Marc. She thinks it's best if I just forget about getting anything from him and concentrate entirely on changing careers. I have NO idea how to do that or when I can do it, but she's right. I need out of my career of 20 years. It's totally dead ended and the pay is atrocious. What the heck should I do though? I'm not trained for anything else and I don't have the time, smarts or money to go back to school. She is saying something in the medical field would be best with my personality but what? It can't take too long to train and it would have to make more than I currently do. Medical Assistants make less, so do LPN's. My assignment for the week is to make a plan and present it to her next week.

Oh gees!