More frequent since D. Smalltalk. 1040s, taxes, etc, which I told her she can do herself for once, since she got the File Jointly clause she wanted. She responded: Okay, when can we get together, etc. I emailed back, "I don't want to get together with you. Any questions on taxes, call me."
She came over last night to finally give me long-past-due, now court-ordered checks. She knocked until I answered. (would normally knock, open with her key and poke her head in with a "Hellooo?")
She looked like sh!t, frankly. And wouldn't come in when invited. Stayed at the mud room threshold and then asked me to turn off the lights so neighbors won't see her. (?) All in all, I'd almost say she's been fairly meek since the D.
Does that (over) answer your question?
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
