he just called...said he wanted to know if I could reschedule ny hair appt because he needs to go to the dr tomorrow a.m. and is freaking out...so I asked why? he told me about the lump and then he said that today he went for an ultrasound and usually when they want to see you the next day it's not good.
I did my best to sound reassuring but let my concern show.
He really did sound scared! So I consulted some friends and asked if I should offer to go with him (via text). They both said yes. So I sent him a text and just said
" Let me know if you want us to go with you to give you moral support. You can see how you feel tomorrow and decide then."
He replied and said "Ok thanks! I should be ok! Have a good night and kiss that boy for me!"
Sometimes real life calls for ditching the DB robot temporarily!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004