Truth time…..my H is not the man I should be with. I should’ve worked out my self esteem issues LONG before we met and that girl, the more confident one, would have most certainly chosen differently. But, I didn’t and this is the man I married (second marriage by the way) and had my amazing daughter with. This is the father of my child and the person I made a convenent to love and stand by the rest of my life. That said, I’m not the W he would’ve chosen if he had all his stuff worked out too. Believe me, for as much issues as he has, I’ve got them to match.
Wow, that's so refreshing to hear gina! Especially since I'm struggling with whether or not BF is the right person for me. Since we don't have children there's nothing really tying me to him except history. I chose him several years ago without much thought, we just never stopped the first date. Would the person I am now choose him? Not sure yet. But I love him and before all this happened I assumed that we would be together forever. Maybe that's enough.
Thanks for offering a pov I haven't come across yet.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
