Doing hard time on the MLC chain gang.

[MHL]

Okay, someone hit me with a 2x4 or stop me or something.

I just spent the last 3.5 hours with my W, granted an hour and half was in court order child custody mediation orientation. The first video we were forced to watch was of kids of divorce sharing the total devastation of thier world because thier parents split up. Hard to watch but sitting there I am thinking is this getting through to my W sitting right next to me.

Here is the first WOOD opportunity for you guys: Were walking out of the courtroom together and were out 30 minutes early and I ask, "Do you want to sit down and talk?"
She without hesitation says, " sure."
This I know is not letting her come to me but we are having great conversations, when I initiate. I "feel" like she wants me to initiate and she is receptive, I am just trying to limit it, the time was available which does not come up that often and we were already together.....so we went to local coffee shop and talked for over an hour.

Am I stupid or what??