Regarding what was said about your ex's anger, I can see that. I think the waywards use anger and contention to fuel their drive to act as they do. If the WAS stay perpetually angry at their spouse, it makes it all the easier for them to commit any action they deem necessary against the LBS.
My ex is the same way. Unfortunately, I can't seem to let some things slide as I probably should sometimes. It's hard when some of it is so outrageous. (See my latest post in my thread for a good example.)
