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The question I am asking myself is: am I doing this just to let her see what reality is? Should I be doing that?


You figure THAT part out yet?
There is your answer.

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Financially we could probably weather a new car payment, but I don't want to be the one responsible for it if we D.


Pretty sure there are legals ways to make sure that doesn't happen PRIOR to the possibility.

If you are a miser and hers is a valid complaint...


You have to answer that question on your own Cyc.


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