Got an email from my L today. She said there IS an electronic deduction or something like that mentioned in one of the pages (it's like 20 pages so must have missed it). I need to reread it again this weekend when I have more time/not so tired.
She said the child support at 18 would get addressed then if Mike files a motion to end child support. On your suggestion, Kat I googled child support in Florida and it said if child is in high school it continues until child is 19 or graduates whichever comes later. So should be ok anyway; he would have nothing to file then.
Had an interesting talk today at lunch with a co-worker. He's a psychologist. He thinks X's constant anger (for the past 3 years!) he explained it something like what he is/has been doing in hurting others (his family) he can't just think this is something I want and chose, so he maintains constant anger against me to kind of self-justify his actions. If he didn't have the anger, he wouldn't be able to keep acting the way he is. Thought that was interesting and helps me to reduce my anger and try to be more forgiving; not saying I'm going to let my boundaries down or anything, just that explains the kind of crazy behavior from X.
So now just another month or so until the judge's order comes in; I guess it could be anytime this month or even the early part of next. My L said one of her cases he took 2 months, but hopefully our case is not that complex!!!
Took kind of a final exam today after finished training, and I did well. It had 60+ questions and I got only 3 wrong which was good. Whew! I learned more than I thought I did. Now I just have to figure out this job in the next 10 months or so.
