I went with my first W (now divorced I am sorry to say) but I found it to be really beneficial. You will get to communicate like you have not before. We communicated so much my W couldn't take it and packed up and snuck out saturday night.
That was about 11 years ago assume it's the same. I think you both will get a lot out of it.
Gritter
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
