P don't worry- I am getting good at this (not expecting him to dump OW today or tomorrow so to speak) after being separated 11 months! I am living my life the best that I can under the circumstances I am choosing for myself...my choice and I own it!

But I am not obsessing over him as much as I used to yet I refuse to pretend that I don't think about him ;-)

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004