So I will make plans and just not tell him. And I won't allow myself to get excited....believe nothing they say and half of what you see.
Well he hasn't said anything for you to get excited about, unfortunately.
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The only present I want is him to tell me he ended it with OW!
You should focus on you though, not him. What he get's up to with OW is up to him. You concentrate on your life and S's life. Waiting for him to tell you it's over with OW is just focusing your mind on him and her. Wrong area to focus.
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And I know better to think it means anything- how many others on the board had birthdays while their spouse was gone, you know??
Well me for one And it was a GOOD birthday.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
And it was a GOOD birthday.
