BND... I am sitting here LMBO just thinking how funny hubby must of looked and to warn your kids of what daddy looked like now.....what did the kids say after thay saw him??? I know I am not being nice by laughing but mine looks like a cartoon character or no wait he actually looks like the guy in beetle juice that had his head shrunk...seriously very large body and a tiny looking head......lol my gut hurts from me laughing.....and of course he wanted a tatoo and the same wire thing I dont think he has gotten those yet of course I havent seen him in like over a year......B/H thank you for your thoughts...of course I would not allow the you knoww hat to continue if was doing what I think he is doing.....we had so many friends back in the 90's that they were doing that and not only the husband went to jail but the wife as well no I am and do believe in not doing that....praying for that to not be the truth.........B/H I am a grown woman 55 this may (double nickel for me) I figure if and when God does anything, it will be his will, for me, doing this is his will so I will stand and go on with my life..... Thanks for the laughs girls I guess I beter go back to work my co worker is wondering why I am laughing so much I told her it was something my friend had posted.......