So I will make plans and just not tell him. And I won't allow myself to get excited....believe nothing they say and half of what you see.
The only present I want is him to tell me he ended it with OW!
And I know better to think it means anything- how many others on the board had birthdays while their spouse was gone, you know??
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004