Mindfull, I could ask him "where are you taking me for my birthday?" that week!

OR what if I tell him "actually, I have plans on the 19th. S and I are doing something special as a family to celebrate my birthday."

!!!!do I have the nerve?????

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004