Heart was pounding in a good way! HE KNOWS my birthday is the 19th...he will be here all day that day now. So then I wondered if it was because he just made other plans for Wed or Tues.

So that is why I also asked him what day he won't be coming over that week.

He replied "Tues or Wed- either one works for me so whatever is best for you."

I want to reply "neither is best- just get your ass home!!!"

I won't see him today. But I think I will just not respond to him for awhile so that I can "make plans" and get back to him!

You know, I should probably guess that he is just being nice and giving me that day off in case I want to go do something since he takes S that night. You know?

So I am thinking that I should not mention my birthday at all, right? And just see what happens.

Last edited by newmama; 03/02/10 10:25 PM.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004