flowmom,
Thank you for saying that. But to be competely honest it has not been complete NC. In the last 4-5 days I have responded to a few texts and answered some of his calls. But mostly those are only about the kids. I know for my sitch, there is no way I can go completely dark. So I have to be strong and control my emotions and not let him bait me into a fight. I've seen him about 4 different times in the last week and I stayed strong, and only got emotional 1 out of those 4 times.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10