Really, how do you handle people who think you are just crazy for taking someone back who has hurt you? What do you say to them?
Well, I looked at it simply as I could be hurt again by ANYONE. And, aren't we all deserving of a second chance? I know the second chances that have been given to me over time have been used wisely to not mess up. So, if someone, mainly our ex-es in this case want a second chance, well, it's up to them to get things to work.
Ironically, my largest opponent to date in all this is my cousin, who's husband sheated her multiple times, yet she took him back each and every one and lovingly supported him through his battle with alzheimer's and says she'd do it all over again. But yet, gets on me for taking (x)W back. To which I sight the above and the conversation ends.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11