Lotus,

Thank you for the reply and advice. I will not challenge her in any way before the weekend. I will simply follow the program.

I have some proof of an EA that I have not shown her. Do I bring that along or is that a bad idea?

Last edited by Tryingbutlosing; 03/02/10 10:00 PM.
TBL now equals "Toward Better Love"
M-44 W-42; 2 kids; married 11 years
1st bomb 10-08, reconcile 12-08
2nd bomb 8-09, moving toward reconcile 3-7-10