WAH in MLC with PA

[DiamondGirl]

I told my SIL that I wasn't as comfortable him having them overnight there if he was going to go against my wishes about decisions we had made together previous (he had agreed to not introduce OW until after the summer to let them get used to us being separated first)

she obviously took that and ran to him with it..

So he called screaming at me that he would kill me if I interfered with him seeing them.. I tried to talk to him.. hung up on him twice.. then gave up

[Lostforwords]

Did he say just what you reported? Or was there more to it?

If that is what he said...maybe it is time to give the local mounties or cops a call.

[DiamondGirl]

I asked him if that was a death threat.. he said it was a promise.. and that he was coming up here to take the kids from me because I was crazy for trying to tell him what to do with the kids..

[DiamondGirl]

I called the OW house when he got cut off when I was trying to reason with him.. he answered and got abusive called me the "c" word, then I hung up on him after telling him not to come home as there would be a warrant for him at the border....

[DiamondGirl]

now that I've calmed a bit.. I'm not sure what to do... this is such a mess

[DiamondGirl]

so much for reconciliations

[DiamondGirl]

I don't know what to do... He was really angry... I've never heard him that angry..

[flowmom]

(((DG))) that is crazy. I think you should call a women's shelter immediately for advice on how to deal with the death threat issue. That is not a joke.

[C-Bart]

These things can spiral out of hand rather quickly. We sometimes are so hurt we say things to hurt the other person as if that will make us feel better.

If you feel like you are in danger do not hesitate to call the authorities.

[DiamondGirl]

He just denied saying it to my SIL of course..

How did things get so flcked up??