You should go to a C session with her. She's probably telling the C everything that makes her look good. She's using it as justification for everything she's done so far.
Look at the sitches on these boards that have been successful. They involved both partners going to C to open up. It shouldn't be done in secrecy in your case especially since your W has been so erratic.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
