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Hi Aver!
What a weekend! My computer at home is SO slow, & I haven't been in the office since Fri. Learned my uncle died on Thurs. (he was ill, and elderly) but the weekend was a tizzy of relatives coming in, the wake & funeral were in a city about 45 mins. away, taking much of Sun. & Monday And I had a work event on Mon., so went there early, drove down to the funeral, etc.

Anyway, I just haven't had a minute, but have now caught up.

Aver, what is this "The Word"? Did I read too fast & miss your explanation? I'll try googling it, just curious. Are you still seeing the C, you liked her right?

Re: Your news flash, unbelievable! Well, X is truly a yellow dog. And very irresponsible to boot! Guess that's no surprise to you. I'm repeating myself here but you're showing yourself to be a classy person of integrity, under difficult conditions that are not of YOUR causing. You can be proud of that. X is totally wimping out. You may just have a shot at keeping the house given his cowardly behavior.

Great job on the meeting, glad it went well. You had a plan, & sounds like it went well. It's normal to wonder, but who cares why X didnt' bring OW? It's kind of like with my H, I wonder why does he have to move in April?? But then I think, so not my problem! (to be honest I'm a little worried he'll move in apt. before I move out of house. But that's a subject for my thread). Really, when we wonder these things we are wasting our time. Who knows why they've done any of the bizarre and hurtful things they've done to us? It's best to try not to think about it.

So your ultimatum from X has passed, any new developments on that? The whole finding new living arrangements-thing is definitely not fun for me - though my sister is working her network of friends & mentioned to my cousins that I am looking to move back to their side of town. It seems a number of people, some I know from years ago, own rental property in the area & they are spreading the word. So we can support each other through the whole house-fight (you) & house-flight (me). Hope today is going well, you sound on the upswing, keep it going. I'll check back soon. ((((Aver))))