Maybe during your trip you could spend some time evaluating the faults as they are, and decide if you want (not can) accept them long-term. If you aren't happy and trying to change him, it might just cause more problems down the road.
this is a good thought. i don't want to just accept things about him that make me unhappy. because we both deserve more than that. definitely something to ponder while i'm hanging drywall next week. Trust can be shown. He is separated. He goes out. Still, as far as you know, he isn't sleeping around. That is trust. He is being honest and telling you what he's thinking. That is trust.
again, very true. he does trust me to confide in me and i also feel like i can confide in him...but that doesn't mean i am not terrified that he would just feel the need to separate again later down the road when things get bumpy (if we decided to reconcile).
Me30 H29 M2.5 T5 H moved out 1/23/2010 H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010 ...feeling hopeless
