Please don't confuse me with Robx. I did not criticize your name choice. I will say to both of you that I believe that going in with an open mind and a willing heart is the key to getting the most out of the weekend. And don't hesitate to ask one of the lead couples for help if you and your spouse are having trouble following all the rules. They are there to help you.
Retrouvaille is an opportunity. Most of the people on this forum are jealous of any couple together enough to get both people to commit to the weekend. Just walking in the door is a small success. If you do what they tell you to do, you will have more successes there. I will be thinking of both of you all weekend, and will look forward to hearing your reports on Monday.
It wasn't criticism, read my post again, if you want to change your situation, start by how you look at it and most importantly how you view yourself!
