The tragedy in my situation is that for about 18 months before the bomb my W had been asking ME to go to Retrouvaille and I didn't think our problems were that bad, didn't feel like spending a whole weekend plus post-sessions, etc etc etc. Her mother had recommended it for us.

What an idiot I was - I should have ran to Retrouvaille at the time because it would have probably been a lifesaver for us before she got involved with OM.

Hindsight is 20/20 I guess, but boy if I could only go back in time ...

ME/XW:47
S21, D19, S15, S14
M:21 T:26
W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12
W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline