Avoiding the doormat - need advice

[MrBond]

Don't do it. If you D, then you are stuck with the payment if she can't cover. Just tell her that matter of factly.

Don't worry about offending her. Let's put it this way, she had no problem offending you saying that she wanted out. Well, all you're doing is giving her what she wants. Out means out.

Let's make this clear...YOU ARE NOT THE @$$ HERE.

To re-quote her, she shouldn't have treated you the way she did because you are the FATHER of her kids, oh and her husband in case she forgot.

Does she work? Let her work out a payment plan. That's what's going to happen anyway if you D.

Good job about the not moving out. Stick to your guns. It's hard as hell, but you can weather her storm.