Flo - I just read your earlier post about the comment your H made on Facebook.
This is where you need to take a tough mental stance (if only for you and you never articulate it).
He has the time to post this crazy BS on Facebook yet you are the one cleaning up puke and scrubbing the house down?
I understand the comment was painful but it is also typical WAS speak. Like RR said, I imagine is life *is* much easier now that he has his own place, can do as he pleases and sees his children less. If that is what makes the "moon clear" to him then RR is again correct... F*** him. The moon could have been rather clear had he manned up, owned up and got some help for his issues. Instead he bolted.
This is exactly why I loathe the phrase "worn down". Do not get "worn down" from somebody who has their head up their ass. My H used to tell me how "worn down" he was? From what exactly? Partying 24/7, living in the frat house for 30 year olds, screwing OW nightly, vacationing once a month? What exactly was so taxing about all that?
Stay off his FB page and when you do see what he writes, consider the source.
