I like your goals, but agree w/P17. He's already enmeshed in your home... then going home to SkagHagBag. You're doing a FINE job of being the BETTER option! Keep at it. You will know when it's not right anymore.
You and lil man are more than enough reason!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.