Even though I don't think you need more people posting to you.. I think you need to stop typing and start printing the advice you have been given & maybe re read it.
I have read some of your stuff, and you are the Latin guy who married the good girl from jersey, and now she is not acting so good, and now you are done?
AND that is all good and fine.. B/c I am divorced and happy and I know that being done can be a blessing..
I think the bigger blessing is the picture that you may be missing, and you may be missing it be b/c your Latin ego is in the way. All of the above said with all due respect.
Born and raised Latin, once married to a Latin, and I can say, you guys are not easy to live with....!
Don't mean to generalize..
My prayer for you is that you stop looking past the chip on your shoulder and concentrate on chipping it away one day at a time.
I also pray that you get to look at your wife as the beautiful, well respected, equal partner that she so desperately wants to be in your eyes.
Is she going about getting that status from you the wrong way?
YUP.
But the time for her to learn her lesson, and go thru her trial and tribulations will come to her when her time comes..
Now is the time of your lesson....
Now is the time, you know to work on you.. That has been typed on your thread like it's going out of damn style ... Read that ish...
Stop focusing on the shiznazz that she is doing... I know, I know , how dare she talk on the phone to that guy in your damn house? the nerve?
I may get glaucoma from the eye rolling.. oooops
anywhoo,
You want to go have some fun, and do your thang!
Then go ahead.... I will give you a suggestion though.
Instead of going out partying with your "friends" b/c I think you have been there and done that, and the didn't bring you any good karma....
You may want to do a 180 and enroll you and your daughter to a pottery class, or an art class or something free and the library.
Or if you have a son you may want to join the YMCA for some boxing :-)
do something productive, that will leave you with a sense of accomplished purpose instead of with a hangover....
Don't get me wrong out for drinks is great fun.... BUT maybe your GAL goals can be a 180.
You wanna fly right? then give up the shitte that weighs you down.. (toni morrison)
Lissett
Live Simply Love Generously Care Deeply Speak Kindly Leave the rest to God
