Fig & Jack, Have stopped and there has been some other crap that has transpired that I am no longer letting my daughter know about. The damage has been done and I do accept responsibility for where things are at.
The wood here is that I have made a sitch worse than it needed to be and now have the added harm to my daughter to deal with for years maybe.
All this being said, I am still optimistic about things and am daily seeing positive baby steps in the things my W is saying and doing.
Jack, your analogy on the weight thing is perfect, Thanks.
The IC is her IC, I had a different IC at the same facility. We have never had real joint MC where everyone is being honest. The 2 times met all together ME, MY W, HER IC, MY IC. My wife was lying through her teeth to all of us and her IC kept talking down to me. I think unless I find Solution Oriented Brief Therapy MC, I am done with Counseling. I have read enough in the last 7 months to know what was wrong with me and what I needed to do/ not do in a Marriage or any Relationship for that matter.
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
