It's time for you to stay off his fb page for awhile. All his moony freedom talk is literally injurious to you. More so than all the new friend adding. You were not his jailer.
Guess what? If I dumped most of my chosen responsibilites (CHILDREN) and ran, the sky would look pretty expansive to me too. Because I'd be sitting in the backyard with a beer instead of taking care of children every night. F. him.
