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[awest1217]

Thanks, if I do write him, it would be only about S. I feel the issues between us will resolve with some time and TLC, but the issues with S are imminent. Things like S feeling pushed out and resenting H are huge. S is in a stage again where he has to be around me all the time. It is sweet, but not good for H. S likes to cuddle and rub my back like I do to him. It is all very sweet, but those are the things we need to discuss. HOw to handle S wanting to sleep in bed with me. What to do when H wants him to stop something I have let him do for a year? If H doesn't come home, how are we going to tell S. I mean right now S thinks a dad is someone like an uncle who comes around once in a while to play. He doesn't know that a dad is supposed to be there all the time. I called H Sunday because S was crying for him and H didn't answer. S said last night..."daddy doesn't answer the phone" S was sitting right there when H didn't answer so H wasn't ignoring me, but ignoring S. It is all so sad, but all things to discuss so that is what I would talk about.