The same advice I was given:

* Go with an open heart and an open mind.
* Trust the presenting couples and the process.

A lot of the couples who are there will be in the same boat as you are, if not worse; there was one couple that left late Friday or early Saturday on our weekend, and there is another couple that are obviously uncomfortable with each other, even at the post sessions.

I won't say that we are out of the woods, but it gave us a good starting point to hopefully rebuild our relationship.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."