TrentC,

I am off to my Retrouvaille weekend this weekend with my reluctant wife. She hasn't said this is our last chance, but I feel that it is.

Any advice as it appears it went pretty well for you.

TBL now equals "Toward Better Love"
M-44 W-42; 2 kids; married 11 years
1st bomb 10-08, reconcile 12-08
2nd bomb 8-09, moving toward reconcile 3-7-10