MLC - standing by my man

[Cadet]

On the resource thread there is a list of reccommened reading. I just got "surviving male menopause" by Jed Diamond haven't started it yet, because I am reading MWD "Sex starved Marriage". I have the mars/venus book but that is further down on my list since I bought it rather than the library.

Also if you read some threads start to finish it can be very informative.

Also I should ask you if you are on the alt?

Become a fan of DB.

[Mila]

Strangest thing with my WH today. In my earlier post I was commenting on how nice he's been to me since he moved out; not today.

My daughter has a student job - works PT at a fast food place. Tonight she worked until 10pm. 9:45pm my WH called me and asks "What time are you picking up daughter?" I said at Ten. He said "I'm in the front of the restaurant I have something for a client I want to give it to you. I'll wait for you" I said OK.

I get dressed and get there at 10pm. First thing he said to me "why didn't you come earlier, you knew that I was waiting?" I'm thinking Excuse me? I was there within 15 minutes of his call. But I didn't let him provoke me I just smiled sweetly and said "I just got dressed and came". Then he gives me the package for the client. I don't get it why he needed to give it to me tonight, since we have our business meeting tomorrow morning at 9:30 at Starbucks (we meet 2x a week to discuss business).

We talked while waiting for daughter. He sounded pretty down. Talked about Olympics and he gets upset at me that I didn't watch the entire closing ceremonies "How can I talk to you if you didn't see it?". Did he come there just to attack me??? And couldn't he just bring daughter home himself since he was already there? Frustrating. grrrr. I guess he had a bad day, when we talked about business earlier on the phone he sounded really depressed.

[Mila]

OldPilot I'm probably going to sound dumb, but what is alt?

I did read "Sex Starved Marriage" and I will look at the "Surviving male menopause" by Jed Diamond.

[Cadet]

No dumb ? only ones not asked. ALt = facebook. However their are rules on this board. Read following link.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1779055#Post1779055

ALt has its own rules but they are different from here.

[Mila]

Facebook - I do use it to stay in touch with my family & friends. I don't think that I'll become a friend of DB since I don't want my WH to know what I'm up to

[Grace_O]

Mila,

I don't think that I'll become a friend of DB since I don't want my WH to know what I'm up to

There are ways around it. If you send me a message on the alt, I can help, if you choose.

[Mila]

How do I do that Grace? I'm new here .....

[Cadet]

You can make up a fake FB account with a fake e-mail address

[Mila]

That makes sense

[Cadet]

Let us know when you have done that and make sure you read the link from DB above.