What are your thoughts wrt Puppy Dog Tails and what and how to handle the kids and what they know.
The children can "see" her living with OM and she doesn't even try to keep her hands off of him when the D10 goes over there. I think you need to answer any questions they ask you as honest as you know how....without butchering their mother. She is doing a good job of that all by herself. She sounds like a real piece of work! But she is their mother, so try to be careful in choosing your words when you talk about her. I'm not saying to defend her or make her sound better than what she is. Tell them honestly what you know to be the truth, but no name calling, etc. They really need a good and decent person as a role model in their lives.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
