Opinions will differ but I firmly believe if a spouse walks away the burden of filing and paying for a divorce is up to them. If you don't want to get divorced then don't make any moves other than sitting tight, working on your finances and DB'ing. If you are served then reply according to the law but don't offer an assistance with the divorce. I am not suggesting to make things ugly but there is no reason for you to do anything more than what you are doing.
I totally agree! (And no snarkiness involved!)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
