I've got a newsflash for you: You're NOT going to get that; when your spouse went into the tunnel; your marriage and your life, as you knew and saw it, DIED. Get it? It's dead, as in not coming back ever again, burned to the ashes, GONE.
I love you.
I admit to a curiousiness as to why you came back after so many years away.
I also know my ego swells at times when people seek me out, just as I do my best to pop that bothersome little thing. I think everyones does a little.
I am glad that you are back and posting your advice.
You are certainly a little more fluffy than I am. : )
Thank you for those posts and reasons for them.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK