flowmom | shifting from devastated to rebuilding

[flowmom]

I guess what confuses me about the legalities, is that any process that is less adversarial/expensive (mediation, collaborative divorce, etc.) would require my active involvement and buy-in. If I am passive with respect to the D proceedings, doesn't that force him into an adversarial stance? I guess I will ask my IC about that (because he's involved in D stuff).