It is a difficult person to love. But it can happen.
I think you need to detach for a little while and determine if you are strong enough to love someone who is Bi-polar. Then you are going to have to determine if she is worth that complete unconditional support.
And if she is then you need to start with your support of your GF and build in some boundaries on conversations about BP and medication.
BUT.
Because she is BP.
Do not go DARK.
I repeat.
Do not go DARK.
You must remain dim. If you do not hear from her every 3 to 5 days contact her about something and then keep the topic simple and on target. No R talk. No chase.
Just let her know you are still there. Letting her have the space to figure things out.
While that is going on read and read and read and read about BP and also take some time to listen to the advice of some of the women and men on this website who are BP or have BP spouses.
But do not go dark.
Unless you want to walk away.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
