Believe me when I say I am trying to GAL and reading but I think I have reached the stage of information overload and am struggling to know what "advice" to apply in the current circumstances. The default is to do nothing but that just give rise to concerns that I am not doing something! I know its early days & i am keen not to do anything rash but meeting with OMW has caused me to become anxious as to what can / needs to be done at the moment and also what the future impact may be on the kids.