That is a pretty long relationship for you that started in that manner. There had to be some good times right?
My W probably in a "discussion" said she never loved me, she has tried to take back a bit.
She is a somewhat quiet reserved person and to a certain degree was drawn in by my exuberance. So she rarely, if ever, tells he what grinds her bones for good for for bad.
Actually I take that back, she tells me what she doesn't like quite often... me (lol)
TBL now equals "Toward Better Love" M-44 W-42; 2 kids; married 11 years 1st bomb 10-08, reconcile 12-08 2nd bomb 8-09, moving toward reconcile 3-7-10