She has an undiagnosed disease, so it's extra frustrating. Her body attacks it's own organs and tissue. They've tested her for everything and can't find the cause. They just keep removing stuff. Eventually it will be unsurvivable. To me, it sounds like lupus, but she was tested for that. So it's some kind of immune dysfunction. Sad. M was surprised I was concerned and he said he appreciated it. I'm sending her flowers, and some pics of all of us the last time we got together over thanksgiving (08}. My intention purely is to let her know I'm thinking about her. If she uses the contact to advocate for me, that'd be wonderful. She liked me. She wanted him to marry me, in fact she called me his wifey.
