W officially in R w/ OM-

[P17]

I know- I hate the fact that now she's finally able to experience her emotions...so much has happened.

Don't hate this fact. Let the realisation of what she has done fall upon her. That needs to happen.

There was a point in our conversation over the weekend where she said she "just couldn't share her feelings w/ me- for some reason it was hard for (her) to share them w/ ME." I guess she stressed me as opposed to OM.

You're mind reading. Very bad idea. We all did it. Take advice though. Stop it. You actually have no idea what she really meant and that could be a million things from nothing to the world hates her.

WTF?! Spew and blaming no doubt.

Mind reading.

Overall feeling pretty good- still seeking out the L to get this done...of course also praying that W opens her eyes or connects the dots before it's too late.

Look after you. W has plenty of hangers-on to look after her.

Finances are a wreck and I feel that much will come out in this D- her villainizing me to her "paralegal friend" has fueled contempt and no doubt "get what you can whil you can" type attitude.

No matter who she hooks up with, L's will do that ... it's nothing personal. My own take on it (and W is NOW wanting half of the house after promising not too) is that she is too dumb to see when an L is making her go to court to line their own pockets (court work is expensive :)). It's nothing personal. It's nothing personal. It's nothing personal. WAS's are just dumb.

W is better than that, but she's surrounded herself w/ sabre-rattling anti-Maynard army of "me, me, me's."

She needs justification for her actions Maynard. Having your hangers-on tell you you're doing the right thing and spoon feeding you how much better you are without you is the easiest way to do that. Maynard - this isn't about you.

This is about her and how she needs to feel that she is doing the right thing for her own sanity - regardless of whether it actually is or not.