seperated a year

[hanging in there]

I have been giving GALing a shot. I tend to be a homebody and like to spend my time with my daughters either here at home or taking off on road trips on the weekends. I have been going out every couple of weeks with some friends at work. H has found out about me going out a couple of the times my youngest daughter likes to talk ALOT lol. When he says anything it is along the lines of nothing has changed you still like to hangout with other men and I hope he makes you happy those type of comments. All to which I dont reply. I thank him for wishing me a good time and tell him to have a good night.

He texted this morning saying he has new insurance cards and wanted to know if I wanted him to bring them by tonight. I have not replied back yet for 2 reasons. One I dont think even though I havent seen him in a while I'm emotional ready without it causeing a backslide. 2. I dont want to reply to every text and seem like I am always available.

My mini goal is for H to ask about me and whats going on in my life, hasn't done that in I don't know how long. All talk has been about him and what he is doing.

My strategy is to stop all R talk even if I have to pull my tongue out. This would also be a 180 for me. I plan to continue NC unless it involves the children or his support but it will be strictly business