Ok ---- another question. What is the most PASSIVE way of letting H know who my L is. He said to have her contact him----which seems non-passive to me. Do I tell her who she is after I'm officially signed up and tell him he can contact her???
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
