Just caught up on your sitch. Sorry your dad is so ill, and that your H is not being very supportive.
How is his relationship with your dad? I hope your dad's illness doesn't send him into a tailspin (seems to happen a lot with MLCers).
What do you think he would do if you asked for his support/help? Sometimes guys need to feel needed. Maybe it would improve his self-esteem? Or would it just piss him off?
