I think it maybe a step too far just now NM. The others seem to be good goals. Bringing him 'back' into YOUR family I think, at the moment, is a game I don't think he should be invited to yet.
Just my 2p worth.
Sorry you're still going through this. As C says, limbo does suck.
Good to see you on the alt though.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"