Sorry, Karen, that I took that out of context, overreacted. I thought you were talking about the order and what your (now) xH had wanted put into it, but your L had failed to reject. That would have been awful.

Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.