me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
I think it maybe a step too far just now NM. The others seem to be good goals. Bringing him 'back' into YOUR family I think, at the moment, is a game I don't think he should be invited to yet.
Just my 2p worth.
Sorry you're still going through this. As C says, limbo does suck.
Good to see you on the alt though.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
Glad to hear you got an ego boost out of it at least newmama! I'm sure the guys see your spark right away. Social GAL can be challenging though...
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
I like your goals, but agree w/P17. He's already enmeshed in your home... then going home to SkagHagBag. You're doing a FINE job of being the BETTER option! Keep at it. You will know when it's not right anymore.
You and lil man are more than enough reason!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Mindfull, your nickname for her is so much nicer than mine! I would never post it for it is way too offensive. Also, if you say it 3x, she appears in the mirror! (re: Beetlejuice + Bloody Mary game)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Just wanted to post some GAL efforts: toy box project, planting flowers, cooking, new hair cut (will post on the alt when it's done), new shoes, new eyeglasses, donating S' old baby stuff to teen pregnancy center, playing new games/activities with S (learned from classes and online)
HIs latest favorite activities include having a blanket dropped over his head for 1 second for several times in a row, being dragged around the house on a blanket, and swinging at the park!
I get to go to a dress rehearsal show for America's Got Talented later this month, too.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Also, if you say it 3x, she appears in the mirror! (re: Beetlejuice + Bloody Mary game)
HAHAHAHAHAH!!! Thanks for a ROFL today!!!!! Too funny!
"HIs latest favorite activities include having a blanket dropped over his head for 1 second for several times in a row, being dragged around the house on a blanket, and swinging at the park!"
Give him a paper bag for a good laugh of your own!
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
I WILL TOTALLY try the paper bag idea! Good one, Whatnow! And if anyone else has play ideas, pass them along!
OK so I just got this text from WH: "Just wanted to let you know that I have all Wednesdays off this month except the week of the 15th I have Friday the 19th off instead."
My birthday is the 19th. He takes S overnights on Fridays. For the past 8 months he has always had either Tues OR Wed off. (except Holidays) I know it is pointless to ask on this forum if his message strikes anyone as odd but come on....it's not just me is it? (my heart is pounding- I haven't replied)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
I'm sure the guys see your spark right away. Social GAL can be challenging though...