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Because I respect myself!


Bravo Eric. We never implied that you need to sit there curled in a ball taking it...You don't have to. What you can do is decide how you are going to deal with it;

a-detaching and being the better person
b-being angry and striking back
c-being domicile and a doormat
d-being a controlling SOB
E-All of the rest of the ways of dealing with it...

Right now you are choosing answer "a"....which I really feel will help you down the road the most....married or single...either way you are stronger and have dealt with your issues effectively.


"Be the changes you want to see in the world"